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Dylan Chalfy
Feb 71 min read
Smile When You Say That...
People are often told to smile when they are on camera, or in front of an audience, to show that they are friendly, nice people whom...
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Dylan Chalfy
Jan 51 min read
"...Become as little children..."
Only when you make yourself open--vulnerable--to your audience can you approach them from a position of strength and confidence. We...
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Dylan Chalfy
Sep 27, 20241 min read
Lend Me Your Ears!
Don't ask your audience for permission: just tell them what you want them to know. It's a common impulse to want to apologize to your...
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Dylan Chalfy
Sep 18, 20241 min read
Presenting!......your deck...
Sure. You can think of putting together your presentation deck as an arbitrary, pro forma task that you perform because you always have,...
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Dylan Chalfy
Aug 14, 20241 min read
Under Pressure...
When engaged in public speaking, there are a multitude of additional pressures to the immediate demands of performance that can cloud...
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Dylan Chalfy
Aug 2, 20241 min read
Choose Your Words
When working on a speech or presentation, it's important to keep several things in mind: Make sure you are including all the vital pieces...
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Dylan Chalfy
Jul 26, 20241 min read
Listen to Yourself
What do you sound like when you're speaking to an audience? Do you have a broad vocal range, or are you stuck in a monotone, or a rigid...
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Dylan Chalfy
Jul 17, 20241 min read
Speak the speech...trippingly...
In Shakespeare-speak, to recite something "trippingly" means to speak with energy, fluidity, and ease. Yesterday, my 13-year-old daughter...
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Dylan Chalfy
Jul 2, 20241 min read
Doubt
Doubt can creep into our minds at any time--and often does. But we can't let it take residence there, especially when we're in front of...
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Dylan Chalfy
Jun 17, 20241 min read
Jazz Hands!
Hands are the most prolific conduit for nervous energy that a speaker is cursed with: they'll want to do all kinds of things,...
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Dylan Chalfy
Jun 10, 20241 min read
Don't Move!
But, if you must, move with a purpose... Don't let your feet get the better of you when speaking to an audience: you may feel the impulse...
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Dylan Chalfy
Jun 10, 20241 min read
The Camera Is Your Friend
When engaged in a remote studio interview, or recording a message that will be sent out to your employees or constituents, it's easy to...
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Dylan Chalfy
Jun 10, 20241 min read
Look Them In The Eye
The only way you can truly engage with your audience is to make-and keep--eye contact with them. It's easy to want to make them an...
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Dylan Chalfy
Jun 10, 20241 min read
Body Language
How you comport yourself in front of an audience says more than you may realize: all kinds of subtle signals can be sent–just by how you...
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Dylan Chalfy
Jun 10, 20241 min read
Your Voice Is An Instrument
Imagine attending a performance where a musician only played two notes on their instrument:Â how long would it take you to fall asleep?...
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Dylan Chalfy
Jun 10, 20241 min read
Unprepared? Don't Do It!
What do you do when you’ve been asked to give a presentation, but you have no time to prepare? Don’t do it!! It can only serve to make...
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Dylan Chalfy
Jun 10, 20241 min read
The Job Interview
A good job interview will get you hired. It is the decisive element of an application process, but don't let nerves get the better of...
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Dylan Chalfy
Jun 10, 20241 min read
Speaking Outdoors
How to avoid the pitfalls of an outdoor speaking engagement: If there’s wind, keep your back to it—so the microphone doesn’t pick it up....
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Dylan Chalfy
Jun 10, 20241 min read
The Elevator Pitch
The elevator pitch is a distillation of your product, business idea, or company that your audience can readily absorb, commit to memory,...
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Dylan Chalfy
Jun 10, 20241 min read
Fear of Public Speaking
It’s natural to feel nervous about public speaking. It’s an inherent feature of our collective psyche to feel unnerved by multiple eyes...
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